
Koen, when should I use de and when het? If you gave me a cup of coffee for every time someone asked me this question, I probably wouldn't close an eye for the rest of my life. 👀 However, I'm going to tell you how it works.
In this post, we’ll explain de and het clearly, with practical tips, cultural notes, and examples you can actually use. Whether you’re in a self-paced Dutch course, intensive Dutch class, or learning Dutch on your own, this guide is for you.
What Are "de" and "het"?
De and het are the Dutch definite articles, both meaning “the” in English.
✅ de is for common gender nouns
✅ het is for neuter gender nouns
But in Dutch, no one knows about the gender of a word, as both feminine and masculine are "de-words"
✅ de is for common gender nouns
✅ het is for neuter gender nouns
But in Dutch, no one knows about the gender of a word, as both feminine and masculine are "de-words"
When to use "de" or "het"?
Many languages have only one word for “the.” English learners don’t have to think about gender at all. But Dutch learners often:
- Feel overwhelmed by memorizing vocabulary with gender
- Worry about making mistakes in conversation
- Get confused about exceptions
That’s why in SociaTaal’s small-group Dutch classes and self-paced Dutch courses with feedback, we always teach new nouns with their article.
Strict rules
Rule 1 - Plural nouns always have the article "de"
A singular noun can have both "de" and "het", but a plural noun always has the article "de". Examples:
- het boek - de boeken (books)
- het verhaal - de verhalen (stories)
- de vrouw - de vrouwen (women)
Rule 2 - Fruits and vegetables always have the article "de"
For some unexplainable reason vegetables and fruits are always "de" words. Look at this:
- de appel (apple)
- de banaan (banana)
- de sinaasappel (orange)
- De druif (grape)
Rule 3 - Compass points always have the article "het"
- het noorden (the North)
- het zuiden (the South)
- het westen (the West)
- het oosten (the East)
Rule 4 - Nouns in the diminutive form always have the article "het"
Normal Dutch people call this a "verkleinwoord". It's pretty much to say the thing is small. For example:
- de hond (dog)
- het hondje (little dog)
Every word ending in "-je" is a diminutive. We learn more about this in the Nederlands Level 2 course.
Rule 5 - Nouns in the diminutive form, but also plural always have the article "de"
This basically means that plural wins over diminutive. So if it's two "little" things, then we still use "de" and not "het". Example:
- de hond (the dog)
- het hondje (the dog) - diminutive
- de hondjes (orange) - diminutive & plural
Rule 6 - If we use a verb as a noun, we always use "het"
Example:
Het wachten is voorbij - (the waiting is over)
Het wachten is voorbij - (the waiting is over)
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FAQ: People Also Ask
Why does Dutch have de and het?
Dutch historically distinguishes between common (masculine and feminine) and neuter genders. "De" is used for common nouns, "het" for neuter ones. It's a feature that evolved from older Germanic languages.
How can I remember de and het?
- Learn the noun with its article as a unit.
- Use flashcards.
- Practice with context.
- Don’t stress about mistakes, just keep speaking.
Are there rules for de and het?
Yes, partial ones.
For example:
For example:
- All plurals use de.
- Diminutives (-je) use het.
- Many abstract nouns ending in -ing use de.
Do I really need to master de and het?
Yes, but perfection isn’t required. Even if you mix them up sometimes, you will usually be understood. SociaTaal’s Dutch courses focus on practical communication first, while helping you learn these details over time.
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